This morning’s fog felt great somehow. The first fog of the season. I finally can say I can feel the winter is coming. A sign of the upcoming holiday festivities and the nonstop cold weather coming in. The excitement of it all started kicking in.
The title itself is the second entry to the book If It Hurts, It Isn’t Love by Chuck Spezzano, Ph.D. The entry talks about those who might make us feel like we’re being attacked. Those whose actions towards us are unloving. They are the ones who are calling out for love. I xan’t say I totally agree with that a 100%. Yes, it can be true. But on the other hand, if their daily actions are to push you away and not once have they shown you love, I doubt that that’s a call for love from the other person. How much more patience shall the other person have to exert? There’s only so much one can hold inside them. They too are calling for love.
As I look back through the past ten years since I graduated from Vallejo High School, I am nothing but stunned with questions on what the hell happened. My high school years were not perfect or the best. I witnessed fights or arguments as I walked down the hallways. Some of the classes were not as challenging as I expected. But it was fun. I learned and made friends that is lasts a lifetime. It was memorable. Changes happened in my high school, which I thought was for the better of the new generation. Now, I am not too sure.
A few of the schools in our city was closed down. From my understanding, it was because of funding. Hogan High School became Hogan Middle School. Vallejo Middle School became part of Vallejo High School. And so on. Classrooms are now more crowded. Questions and concerns about the quality of the curriculum are filling up my head since I am a mother of a four year old who is about to start Kindergarten next school year.
After watching and reading the news about a couple of our schools in Vallejo, my concerns grew deeper, now also including the safety of my child and my cousins (also attending school within the same district). Two of our schools were featured in the news in a matter of just one month. The first incident involved a high school student being shot in close vicinity to his school. Shortly after, Vallejo High School was reported to have two separate lockdowns in one day. One involves something about a weapon, the other when a fight occurred involving at least fifty student.
Given that what the media shows us is possibly twisted and we don’t really know as much as what is being shown on televisions or written on the papers/internet. Yet, it still concerns me. it bugs me. I have a child who is about to start school in a few months, and cousins who are still in school. How is this being handled? How has the quality of education changed and how will it affect my child, my cousins, the rest of the kids? Safety is always an issue, but how safe are our schools now?
Our kids are our future. Schools are supposed to be the place besides home where our kids can learn and grow safely. How can we be assured now?