The title itself is the second entry to the book If It Hurts, It Isn’t Love by Chuck Spezzano, Ph.D. The entry talks about those who might make us feel like we’re being attacked. Those whose actions towards us are unloving. They are the ones who are calling out for love. I xan’t say I totally agree with that a 100%. Yes, it can be true. But on the other hand, if their daily actions are to push you away and not once have they shown you love, I doubt that that’s a call for love from the other person. How much more patience shall the other person have to exert? There’s only so much one can hold inside them. They too are calling for love.
This Thing Called Life 